That’s when you can start making the conversation more sexual
During this final step, you’ll figure out if she fits your standards. You’ll also make sure she’ll want to meet you later for a date. You might also learn if she’s one of those women who love sex as much as you do.
That’s because for women to want to meet you and to talk about sex with you, they have to trust you first.
Sure, some women will talk about naughty subjects and engage in sexting without any trust at all. But usually, these interactions will stay online because women won’t want to meet you in person, even if you’re having a great time online.
So if you want to actually meet women who like to bang from online dating, you’ll have to earn their trust. The best way to do that is to show an interest in who they are as people.
You do this by sharing your mutual interests. Eventually, you can talk about deeper topics to find out their passions and their dreams. You might even learn about her whole life story if she trusts you enough. Opening up about this is a huge sign she already trusts you.
Meeting women who just want sex
The last thing I want to mention is how to meet women who simply want to have sex with no strings attached. These are ladies who don’t want anything serious with anyone and are just looking to get laid. These women just want a one night stand because it’s fun.
Trust me, there are plenty of women who are after just sex and nothing else. They might even be so upfront about it that they’ll mention it in their profile.
Even if they’re upfront about it, you can’t just say you wanna hook up and run. Instead, say something like you’re looking to spend a great night with a wonderful woman, but you’re not looking for anything serious. You can give a reason, and it can be anything, to be honest. You can say you’re just not being ready for a relationship or that you’re not going to be staying in town for long.
The reason doesn’t matter because the only thing that really matters is that you’re completely upfront about what you want.
Simply put, there are other people who are looking for similar things you’re looking for. And the best way to find them to simply let them know you’re also up for the same thing: whether that’s a casual fling, a one night stand or hooking up where you won’t get caught.
My favorite line to say is the following: “I’m not really looking for anything serious. And I’m not just after mindless sex either because I actually have to like the person to want to sleep with them. But so far I see you’re amazing and I’d like to meet you tonight. Who knows where things may lead. But one thing I know for certain, we’re going to have a wonderful time together!”
This leaves everything pretty much ambiguous. And it lets her know you’re open to both serious relationships and casual sex. This line works on women who want both and neither because it leaves everything open to “fate” so to speak. Or as I like to call it “Whatever happens, happens!”